Upgrade to Expo 51 and React Native 0.74 (#3980)

* upgrade packages

* remove `expo-image-picker` patch

* remove old expo-updates patch

* rename rn patch

* downgrade crop picker

* bump `ExpoGifView` `SDWebImage` version

* apply config changes

* update build docs for apple silicon

* update build docs for apple silicon

* update expo-updates patch

* add back patch readme

* bump `expo-dev-client`

* bump `babel-preset`

* update `babel.config.js`

* update `react-native-paste-input` patch

* remove old ota updates hook

* update types

* update types

* downgrade pager-view

* update animated ref type

* fix web-only type

* update `react-native-bottom-sheet` `BottomSheetTextInput`

* add `expo-application` to jest mocks

* remove reanimated patch

* update notifications patch

* update reanimated path

* fix import

* update yarn.lock

* use `ItemT` instead of `any`

* expo bump

* Revert logic change, fix types

* Fix JSON file

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Co-authored-by: Dan Abramov <dan.abramov@gmail.com>

src/view/com/util/Views.web.tsx

@@ -14,6 +14,7 @@
 
 import React from 'react'
 import {
+  FlatList,
   FlatListProps,
   ScrollViewProps,
   StyleSheet,
@@ -67,7 +68,7 @@ export const FlatList_INTERNAL = React.forwardRef(function FlatListImpl<ItemT>(
     desktopFixedHeight,
     ...props
   }: React.PropsWithChildren<FlatListProps<ItemT> & AddedProps>,
-  ref: React.Ref<Animated.FlatList<ItemT>>,
+  ref: React.Ref<FlatList<ItemT>>,
 ) {
   const pal = usePalette('default')
   const {isMobile} = useWebMediaQueries()