Adjust stale-caches and dont group read&unread notifs together (#2041)

* Dont group read & unread notifications together

* Remove and reduce some stale cache times

* Keep the staleTime on the post-feed

* Bring back the load-bearing staletime on profile

src/state/queries/post-thread.ts

@@ -7,7 +7,6 @@ import {useQuery, useQueryClient, QueryClient} from '@tanstack/react-query'
 
 import {getAgent} from '#/state/session'
 import {UsePreferencesQueryResponse} from '#/state/queries/preferences/types'
-import {STALE} from '#/state/queries'
 import {findPostInQueryData as findPostInFeedQueryData} from './post-feed'
 import {findPostInQueryData as findPostInNotifsQueryData} from './notifications/feed'
 import {precacheThreadPosts as precacheResolvedUris} from './resolve-uri'
@@ -65,7 +64,6 @@ export type ThreadNode =
 export function usePostThreadQuery(uri: string | undefined) {
   const queryClient = useQueryClient()
   return useQuery<ThreadNode, Error>({
-    staleTime: STALE.MINUTES.ONE,
     queryKey: RQKEY(uri || ''),
     async queryFn() {
       const res = await getAgent().getPostThread({uri: uri!})