Adjust stale-caches and dont group read&unread notifs together (#2041)

* Dont group read & unread notifications together

* Remove and reduce some stale cache times

* Keep the staleTime on the post-feed

* Bring back the load-bearing staletime on profile

src/state/queries/service.ts

@@ -1,13 +1,10 @@
 import {BskyAgent} from '@atproto/api'
 import {useQuery} from '@tanstack/react-query'
 
-import {STALE} from '#/state/queries'
-
 export const RQKEY = (serviceUrl: string) => ['service', serviceUrl]
 
 export function useServiceQuery(serviceUrl: string) {
   return useQuery({
-    staleTime: STALE.HOURS.ONE,
     queryKey: RQKEY(serviceUrl),
     queryFn: async () => {
       const agent = new BskyAgent({service: serviceUrl})